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Welcome to Episode 178 of the Salsa Kings LIVE podcast
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Hey familia, welcome back! In this episode, I explain the concept of the “Necessary Waste of Time.” This idea is an extension of the last episode, “Slow is Fast.” If you haven’t listened to that one, I highly recommend checking it out. This topic is all about slowing down to truly connect with others, whether in dance, relationships, or life in general. Let’s explore why what seems like a waste of time is actually essential.
Key Points
The Power of Slowing Down
- Many people, especially leads in dance, feel like they have to move fast and get things done quickly.
- Taking your time actually prevents mistakes and creates better communication.
- In social dance, slowing down strengthens connection with your partner.
Why “Wasting” Time Matters
- The time we spend on others shows that we care.
- Whether in sales, relationships, or dance, people appreciate when we take time to listen and connect.
- “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”
Etiquette and Representation
- Saying “excuse me” after sneezing is a small, unnecessary action, but it’s good etiquette.
- Similarly, asking someone to dance even when they came for that purpose shows respect.
- These small actions define who we are and how we represent ourselves.
Social Dancing as a “Waste of Time”
- Dancing has no direct productivity benefit, but it brings joy, connection, and fulfillment.
- The experience of sharing a rhythm with another person is deeply valuable.
- Spending time on relationships, even when it seems unnecessary, keeps them strong.
Being Present in the Moment
- Many people rush through life without appreciating what they have.
- Taking even 15 seconds to breathe, be grateful, or meditate is important.
- We should appreciate that we can dance at all and use our experience to uplift others.
Applying This in Life
- Be intentional when meeting new people—look them in the eye and remember their name.
- Take the time to appreciate those around you, whether in dance, work, or personal relationships.
- When we slow down and connect, we create better experiences for ourselves and others.
Closing Thoughts
We often see certain actions as a “waste of time,” but in reality, they are necessary for building strong connections. Whether it’s in dance, business, or personal relationships, taking the time to be intentional makes all the difference. I challenge you to embrace this mindset—waste time with purpose, and watch how much more fulfilling life becomes.
If you enjoyed this episode, check out “Slow is Fast” (Episode 177). And don’t forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel at FreeSalsaClasses.com for live-streamed salsa lessons.
Thank you for being here. I love you all. Andres Fernandez, signing out!
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